
#DatingDetox: Dinner party of 8. Uh, I've never even cooked for 2!
I have to admit there is something truly beautiful about doing a detox. I can't remember a time I felt so healthy. I spend my days working, and evenings either out with friends or at a spin class. I feel like the entire process is really grounding and allowing me to focus on strengths instead of being reminded how horrible I am at dating. It never occurred to me how much it messed with my self esteem.

#NerdsUnite: Pursue with Courage (one nerd's journey through chemo & cancer)
I’ve gotten that a few times from acquaintances and guests who don’t know the whole story behind my “haircut.”
What to say? Usually, I just say thanks; but simultaneously, a flood of silly-non-grumpy snarky comments come through my head (because, you know, that’s the way my brain works!).

#RealDeal: Yep, I am dating a plant. I'm not kidding. (dating detox day 10)
I never realized how much dating actually hurt me. Date after date I would always go in SO POSITIVE and one by one I was left disappointed. I've met an enormous amount of amazing people, don't get me wrong, but nothing worked out for one reason or another. The problem was never with them, it was me.

#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (exposing investor fraud)
I've been dealing with potential investors (and now finally have an investor) for the last year and a half. Every meeting that I went to, every time I had to travel for a meeting WHATEVER the case was - I was 100% taken care of. I never bought a meal, or paid my way in any manner. All my flights, hotels, food, anything I needed was covered. Period end of sentence. The purpose of an investor is to invest. For them to ask you to front ANY money (no matter how big or small) in any regard is complete bullshit and sounds like one of those Nigerian scams.

#Tonight: Beer + Boobs + Brains = @Goalsportscafe
Everyone in LA is invited. So come on down for all things awesome, and I can't WAAIIIITTTTT to kick it with you guys tonight.

#DatingDetox: Day 8 (breakdown or breakthrough? & new tattoo)
I keep writing and rewriting the first sentence to this post. I'm so unexpectedly overcome with emotion I'm not even sure where to start with everything.
Speak your truth ... even if your voice shakes ... (er hands shake as you type)

#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (how do I start a blog?)
I like to think of these people that come into our lives as "little blessings." You obvi weren't meant to date this guy, but he was "on your path" to wake you up. He spoke your truth in a VERY blunt manner. It shook you, you became offended, but that was just coming from a place of ego.

#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (he's just not that into me, now what?
What are you doing to feed your dating pipeline? You are clearly fixating on this individual because you have this preexisting bond and connection, but have you taken other dates? Has he seen how desirable and much men want you? One guy isn't enough.

#NerdsUnite: Pursue with Courage (one nerd's journey through chemo & cancer)
I got a new tattoo (my second real one… it’s a lot more common 1) “these days”, and 2) in Hawaii where everyone runs around half-naked and covered in colorful, usually meaningful, art work). Mine is a key (to Sean’s heart… he has a locked up heart tattoo) with a whale tail (a Hawaiian humpback of course!) surrounded by a pink ribbon. It’s on my wrist where I can cover it for work. But if I don’t have to, I leave it out. I’ve gone back to work on the boats and between the tattoo and the new hair, I have had some questions from some very curious women (so far it’s always been women, the observant sisterhood they tend to be). I had someone outright ask, “What kind of cancer?” and later another woman said, “Ah, I saw your tattoo…” and I even got, “So, what’s the story behind your hair?”

#RealDeal: Let up on Manti Te'o, yo!
I knew deep down he wasn't, but there was this big part of my ego that wanted to believe. I didn't want to believe I could be so stupid, and I didn't want to believe something like this could happen to me.
It is an EXTREMELY shameful experience. I cannot stress that enough.