#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (exposing investor fraud)
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#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (exposing investor fraud)

I've been dealing with potential investors (and now finally have an investor) for the last year and a half. Every meeting that I went to, every time I had to travel for a meeting WHATEVER the case was - I was 100% taken care of. I never bought a meal, or paid my way in any manner. All my flights, hotels, food, anything I needed was covered. Period end of sentence. The purpose of an investor is to invest. For them to ask you to front ANY money (no matter how big or small) in any regard is complete bullshit and sounds like one of those Nigerian scams.

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#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (how do I start a blog?)
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#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (how do I start a blog?)

I like to think of these people that come into our lives as "little blessings." You obvi weren't meant to date this guy, but he was "on your path" to wake you up. He spoke your truth in a VERY blunt manner. It shook you, you became offended, but that was just coming from a place of ego.

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#NerdsUnite: Pursue with Courage (one nerd's journey through chemo & cancer)
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#NerdsUnite: Pursue with Courage (one nerd's journey through chemo & cancer)

I got a new tattoo (my second real one… it’s a lot more common 1) “these days”, and 2) in Hawaii where everyone runs around half-naked and covered in colorful, usually meaningful, art work). Mine is a key (to Sean’s heart… he has a locked up heart tattoo) with a whale tail (a Hawaiian humpback of course!) surrounded by a pink ribbon. It’s on my wrist where I can cover it for work. But if I don’t have to, I leave it out. I’ve gone back to work on the boats and between the tattoo and the new hair, I have had some questions from some very curious women (so far it’s always been women, the observant sisterhood they tend to be). I had someone outright ask, “What kind of cancer?” and later another woman said, “Ah, I saw your tattoo…” and I even got, “So, what’s the story behind your hair?”

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#RealDeal: Let up on Manti Te'o, yo!
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#RealDeal: Let up on Manti Te'o, yo!

I knew deep down he wasn't, but there was this big part of my ego that wanted to believe. I didn't want to believe I could be so stupid, and I didn't want to believe something like this could happen to me.

It is an EXTREMELY shameful experience. I cannot stress that enough.

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#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (how do you know when to end a date?)
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#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (how do you know when to end a date?)

IF, however, I am super into the guy, instead of calling it a night I will suggest a change of location. You never want to be "stagnant" on a first date. When you're first getting to know someone there are only so many things you can ask them (as you want to maintain surface level conversation. NEVER EVER get into politics, religion, or anything negative.). Creating a change of scenery will give you more of an organic refresh on the conversation and keep things fun and upbeat. Anytime I pick a bar for a first date, I will also make sure there are cool "plan b and c" bars nearby for alternative points of discussion.

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#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (I want one thing and my parents want another)
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#NerdsUnite: Ask That Nerdy Chick (I want one thing and my parents want another)

Your parents will ALWAYS want what they THINK is best for their daughter, or their son - but who are you? That is the only thing in life you ever have to solve for. It's terribly difficult breaking free from that and becoming your own person, but remember, it is all a step by step process. (And a jug of water gets filled one drop at a time.) I completely lucked out with having parents that apparently knew from when I was just a few days old that "this one was different." (I have an older brother who was apparently quite the good baby. I, on the other hand, was a terror from the womb.) My parents embraced my weirdness and told me that with hard work and my mind set to something I could accomplish ANYTHING. (Mother and father, you were both very right.)

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