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Men find many things attractive in women, and different men find different things attractive in different women. However, the vast majority of men find one thing most attractive in a woman.
That single trait is peace.
Does a woman live in peace and bring peace to him? Ultimately, every man wants some level of peace. In this article, we’ll explore peace, why it’s so attractive to men, and how to embody it in your life.
What Is a Peaceful Woman?
What does it mean to be a peaceful woman? A peaceful woman is one who is at peace with herself, at ease in her own skin, and excited about life. She’s not afraid of being comfortable alone.
She also has an inner strength that shows itself even when she is by herself. However, this doesn’t mean that she comes across as overly strong, cold, or uncaring. Quite the opposite—she tends to be more gentle than most women.
The peaceful woman speaks softly, thinks before she speaks, and never tries too hard to get attention for herself. But don’t confuse her low-key ways with passivity or lack of excitement about life—peaceful women truly appreciate their lives and feel grateful for all they have.
She’s comfortable in her own skin and with who she is, inside and out. She loves her body and enjoys dressing up like most women do but doesn’t define herself by how she looks or compare herself to other women in a negative way.
A peaceful woman lives in peace with men; this means that she doesn’t hold grudges, judge people harshly, gossip about others, or make the men in her life feel like they need to earn her love—she gives it freely.
That doesn’t mean she doesn’t have standards.
It means that she is open to a good man in her life. She does not bring or add drama to his life. She is not antagonistic, critical, or hard to get along with in her relationships.
Why Is a Peaceful Woman So Attractive to Most Men?
First, it shows that she is at ease with herself. A peaceful woman isn’t needy or desperate to be loved by a man. She’s not conflicted about who she is and can therefore love her partner for exactly what he is, flaws and all.
At the same time, she doesn’t have any games or tricks up her sleeve—she wants a good man in her life simply because he makes it better, nothing more. She’s truly open to giving love if a man truly loves her back and does so without trying too hard.
Most men are attracted to youth (18+), beauty, fitness, femininity, and peace.
As popular YouTuber and image consultant Kevin Samuels says, “Men will go down in beauty to go up in cooperation.” Which is to say that most men would rather date a less attractive woman if that woman brings more peace into his life.
Peaceful women bring comfort. Most men feel at peace with a peaceful woman because they don’t have to defend their actions, thoughts, emotions, or decisions. They can just be.
Their word is good enough for her and she trusts that he’s making the right choices. She doesn’t doubt him or try to change him into what he’s not. If she has an issue with something he did or said, she gives it some time and space before bringing it up again in conversation later without arguing about it first.
A peaceful man feels like a grateful champion and king when he’s around such a woman.
Men also find peaceful women attractive because peaceful women don’t judge them as other women may.
A peaceful woman sees a man as he is, not as she hopes or assumes him to be. She doesn’t assume the worst of him and also does not expect perfection from him all the time. This can save a lot of fighting and misunderstanding in relationships because it takes the pressure off knowing that his partner accepts him for who he really is—flaws and all.
Why Women Aren’t Peaceful with Men
There are many reasons a woman might not be peaceful with men.
Some women aren’t at peace with men because they feel threatened by them. They’re either jealous of men’s power and strength or intimidated by men because they’ve been conditioned to believe that only weak, passive, submissive women get loved by strong, dominant, men.
Other women were raised in a culture or subculture that taught them to fight instead of cooperating as a means of survival. This strategy worked great for surviving, but not so great in relationships.
Women might not be at peace with mean because of past trauma, abuse, or negative experiences.
How to Be a More Peaceful Woman
If you want to be more at peace, here are some tips.
Take better care of yourself. Get enough sleep each night, drink plenty of water every day, eat nourishing food, exercise, and dress well for yourself.
Reflect on your life experiences. What happened to you that made you feel like men are the enemy? Why do you feel judged by other women? Are there other ways to handle these situations besides fighting, competing with others, or being a victim of someone else’s bad behavior?
Focus on yourself. Practice being at peace with who you really are instead of hating about what’s wrong with you. Remember that a man doesn’t have to complete you—you know how to be complete! Stop looking for validation from him through physical intimacy.
Listen to good men with gentleness, respect, and positivity.
Start loving your body for what it can do instead of hating it for how it looks. See yourself in the best light possible.
How Men Feel About Peaceful Women
Most men connect with peaceful women because they feel safe when they are with them. They don’t have to work hard at being loved or constantly prove themselves worthy in a woman’s eyes.
Men also find that peaceful women are great listeners, open to giving love and receiving love in return, understanding, accepting, compassionate, non-judgmental, forgiving, non-aggressive, and comfortable with themselves—all qualities that build trust in relationships.
Over time these qualities lead to more intimacy and relationship satisfaction.
Therefore, men feel very appreciative of peaceful women. They love, respect, and desire these types of women.