After becoming this accidental expert in dating, it is now my life’s work to take what I have learned in the field and help nerdy guys get the girl. We’re all super smart, and talented, yet what makes us so successful in our professional lives no doubt impedes us in our love lives.
I’ve talked about this before that dating has an ebb and flow – and courtship is TRULY an art … but now I’m putting my money where my mouth is and finally structuring a workshop.
I am SO FREAKING EXCITED to announce this …. but in 17 days Talk Nerdy To Me, Lover will be throwing its first ever social dynamics workshop.
I found a calling last year when I worked in the field with Neil Strauss and between myself, and our resident social dynamics expert @Redolopho we really want to help you guys take things to another level.
We’ve been privately working with some students for the last few months and here is what some of them have said …
Student A: 30 years old, never had a girlfriend.
After Eric coached me for a week, I used his advice on a smokin’ hot girl I met for the first time in class and she INSTANTLY started going crazy over me. She actually asked when she could see me again without me saying ANYTHING about meeting up! Now every time I text her, she texts me back, gushing with praise- just like I used to do to women I didn’t have a chance with.
I’m a 5’8″, 270 lb high-functioning autistic with seborrheic dermatitis, no car, no college degree, and working 10 hours a week at minimum wage. A year ago, I thought I was going to die a virgin- but after taking Eric’s advice for just 7 days, I got a solid 8.5 eating out of my hand.
Did I mention that this was all without meeting Eric face-to-face or even talking on the phone? We only talked over Facebook chat for a half hour or so a day.
Student B: 24 years old. Sad Puppy Dog Eyes from Mirror Post
Jen tends to have the most original ideas in the world. Quite possibly the last of the original ideas to be had if you think about it. When she posted about a reversed date where she asks me about my dating life in order to help me better myself, I was intensely intrigued. I immediately contacted her and set up an “appointment” for this wondrous experiment. I am the case of the “sad puppy dog eyes”.
Since our meeting, I have dived into Neil Strauss’s Rules of the Game, started intensely looking & calling for my own place, put myself out there a bit more, and most of all, found a girl that I THOUGHT was really into me. Long story, short: I turned out to be a rebound and I was blinded by my own mind. I am an over thinker, and I’ve definitely learned my lesson; the mind can really fuck you harder than Chris Nolan’s Inception. However, my mind ran rampant constantly until last night.
The Talk Nerdy To Me Lover’s talk show was last night. Unfortunately, I didn’t go due to a previous engagement. I did go to the after party at Barney’s Beanery in good ol’ West Hollywood. After quickly relaying a synopsis of my recent girlfriend after Jen and my meeting, she felt compelled to introduce me to THE social dynamics expert: Eric Carrillo. This guy is fucking brilliant beyond belief. He not only broke down what my situation was without me fully completing my description, but he was able to go into detail effectively. I explained to him about my current ordeal with the girl who had used me as a rebound: she had a void and she saw certain similarities in me that her ex-fiance had (they were engaged for 2 years and she is 19 now… yeah) and attempted to fill that void with me. It seemed to work for her for at least 3 ½ weeks… then disaster struck when she realized I was not that much like her ex at all and was someone else with different personality qualities: being nice, honest, and liking her a lot. Since this was my first time experiencing this, I went crazy trying to figure out what was wrong. I had done some soul searching to put my mind at ease… but no dice. It wasn’t until I had this ridiculously relaxing talk with Eric that it made perfect sense to me. I was a rebound. Plain and simple. But, what next? Eric simply said, “Just let it go.” Within the realm of social interaction, letting something go should be relatively easygoing because all you need is time, right? Time heals all they say. But there was something soothing about how Eric delivered it to me. It was easy to hear and understand. He put it in a way that made me feel like he knew exactly what I had just gone through. I cannot thank him enough. Thanks a trillion Eric!
How amazing is that? Social dynamics simply opens your eyes, please understand this isn’t a PUA (pick up artist) community event – it’s just two nerdy peeps with a WHOOLLLLEEE lotta expertise that want to share it with you guys.
When: Saturday August 11
I don’t want to publicly disclose where the event is going to be held to make sure you guys remain anonymous in the process, but the event will be held in Los Angeles.
You will have both of us at the workshop – and we are looking to have this be an ongoing thing so even if you can’t make the first one feel free to still email and we will add you to the list for updates.
Some areas we will be covering include:
1) How to approach a girl in a non-traditional setting
2) Attraction basics
3) How to approach a female through social media
… and much much more.
We’re going to keep the classes small and intimate, but the majority of this will be field work. We’ll teach you guys the bare bones basics but then we’re going to get your butts out in the field and help you guys out IRL. This ain’t yo mama’s workshop!! =)
I’m extremely humbled to be of service, and I ABSOLUTELY cannot wait for this. Eric and I are at your service nerderinos!! Let’s experience some more personal growth!!
To sign up email: JenFriel at TalkNerdyToMeLover d c (or if you’d like more info)