#NerdsUnite: Important Decisions To Make Before Marriage
#Talk Nerdy To Me™’s @staffwriter
Marriage is the next step in your and your partner’s life, and you should be excited! You have so much to look forward to and can spend the rest of your lives together. With that said, you have to make some necessary decisions before tying the knot to ensure everything goes smoothly. Read on to learn more about the important decisions to make before marriage.
Who Does What?
Even if you’re already living together, you’ll still have to come to some important decisions about who does what in your home. For example, who does the cooking, and who cleans the dishes? Decisions like these may seem inconsequential, but life is full of them. If you don’t agree early, things can quickly spiral into chaos as dishes pile up in the sink and clothes remain unfolded. You may end up doing some things you don’t want to, like vacuuming or mopping, but at the end of the day, you are helping turn your house into a loving home where your relationship can thrive.
Should You Get a Prenup?
More people are getting prenuptial agreements than ever before, as more couples realize that it is not an indication the relationship will fail. The stereotype has long been that you don’t need a prenuptial if you think the marriage will last forever, but more people have seen how disastrous a divorce can be without one. To ensure things are fair between you and your future spouse, you should hire a lawyer for your prenuptial agreement. They can ensure everything is amicable between you both and that you will both be taken care of in the sad case of a divorce.
How Do You Feel About Pets and Kids?
Another critical decision to make in the early stages of your relationship is whether you want kids or pets. Getting on the same page is crucial to ensuring you don’t run into something completely unexpected down the line. For example, you’d hate to be married for a year or two and decide you want a cat, only to learn that your partner is allergic or doesn’t want one at all. You should have such conversations during the dating phase of your relationship, and you should come to a solid agreement. Anything less than a firm 100 percent agreement can turn into something terrible further down the line.
Make these important decisions before your marriage to ensure there are fewer bumps in your relations and that you can take care of disagreements quickly when you do encounter such bumps. Your marriage is like a living, breathing creature, and you must do everything in your power to ensure it remains healthy and grows as time goes on.
