I am now just over the halfway mark in my 30 day dating detox.
One of the awesomely unexpected side effects to this detox has been this MASSIVE influx of business. I guess it makes sense if you think about it … instead of striking out with so many dudes, I’m focusing on self, and my strengths in business which makes me more motivated and a happier person in general.
(I’m still in Florida and my mom told me this morning that she couldn’t believe how happy I’ve been overall and that she says my energy is really different.)
Super fascinating, btw, I’ve also been doing a bunch of research on ENTJ personality types (which I was told I was after taking the myers briggs), and it TOTALLY freaked me out reading in black and white some of my biggest issues:
It’s not something that I’m proud to admit that I do, but I feel like a big part of me lives life one step removed; everything, to me, is a game of chess. I look at people and things and contemplate their next moves, and expected trajectories. I view it as strategic, but I’m sure it’s also a defense mechanism in wanting to control after spending so much of my youth getting hurt by people I trusted.
This is also why I was so passionate about this new “feather” mentality because strategizing only works in business; I can’t can’t can’t let it seep into my personal life so much since it’s counterproductive and making me seem like this cold beyotch to all these dudes I’ve dated.
On that note, I’d like to introduce you all to a loverly new app called MessageMe!
I’m going to be talking about it for the next, however long, and showing all of you loverly people how awesome it is by cleverly seeping it into some of my stories and adventures.
See, that’s the ENTJ in me again getting all arrogant with thinking I be clever.
Either way, I’m super excited to be working with these dudes and I’ve been using their app now for over a month and very honestly can’t say a bad thing about it. It adds value to messaging by leveraging the cloud. Dudes, messages from MessageMe NEVER get erased (as long as you still have your account), AND the messages are searchable!!!
Devils advocate: That sounds pretty scary! What about privacy?
All messages on MessageMe are secure and private.
I’ll talk more about it as we get closer to the launch, but I’m very thankful for the sponsorship and even MORE stoked to talk to people about something that excites me so freaking much!!
I swear man, self first, rest later. This dating detox is really starting to pay off.
Oh yeah and …
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